Redefining Tough Love

The heart is a magnificent energetic instrument able to vibrate the cosmos and co-create masterpieces beyond any symphony ever written, or heard. It is made of subtle energies that can harness a power so great that few who’ve walked the Earth understand. It is much more than, “the organ in your chest that pumps blood through veins and arteries” (Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary). Despite the magnitude of its power, it's is very simple. The heart is an energy center. It is a chakra, or a vortex of subtle energy in your multidimensional being, through which energy flows and is distributed. You know when your heart is open. You feel that sense of life force, enthusiasm, inspiration, creativity, falling in love etc. That kind of energy causes your entire being to vibrate higher. When we vibrate at a higher frequency, we attract elevated people, life situations, jobs, opportunities etc. because like attracts like. You are constantly dictating orders to the universe through your vibration, thought patterns, as well as spoken word. Thoughts are energy.  Your word is where you choose to prioritize your thoughts. And behind all solid matter, is an energetic component. The universe is energy. And what science has discovered in this century, is that everything pulsates and has frequency. We call it the quantum field. And when you align your vibration to a higher frequency, you attract opportunities of the highest caliber.

But how do we do that? Well, let’s go back to the heart...  

“The heart controls the energy flow by opening and closing. This means that the heart, like a valve, can either allow the flow of energy to pass through, or it can restrict the flow of energy from passing through”.

-Michael A. Singer, The Untethered Soul

Stay open. When the heart closes, energy is blocked and we become deadened, empty and hard. Whether or not you close your heart, has to do with how you digest and process the experiences you traverse in this life. We all have a story. We all walk through darkness, but staying open is for the brave. Learn to hone a love strong and resilient enough to flow through you and unto others, no matter what happens in this world. It becomes a choice in observing your experiences without attaching to them, gracefully letting them go, while knowing there is learning in everything. This is where I want to redefine tough love: walking through the world as a conscious pioneer, with a love so tough nothing can break you. And that, my friend, is gangster.  It’s grit. Just hold on, and put one foot in front of the other and stay open. You never know what’s around the corner.